Girl, moral principles and sadness

I don’t know why I decided to write this post, I probably want to speak out … but not to anyone.
The fact is that my friend, with whom it turned out, is now renting an apartment together, invited the girl from work. I had to “take a walk” at 10 in the morning of January 1 (who was walking at such a time knows what to do on the street just nothing). Well, it turned out that the girl was delayed not for 3 hours, but for 2 days. We talked, I periodically courteously “excommunicated” and generally behaved like a share-boy. But at the end of 2 days, it simply happened that it turned out to be too “dirty” for me. A friend offered a threesome (they say, everything will be fine, she will agree). As if I agree. My consent for him was a 100 %. I had to courteously refuse. He later proposed to leave us alone at all. Like you rest and all that. And again I refused and several times, which I only received a look: “What are you moron”.
Why am I. Yes, to the fact that my moral principles do not put the girl in the ranks of meat products or amusements. Even in spite of my chauvinism, I still respect the girls as an individual, I am always interested in communicating with them. In addition, I also regard friendship in another way. I will not share my girlfriend, I will rather help a friend find her.
But, it seems he is more liberated or immoral (for me the second, someone may consider that the first). This is sad t.To. This can upset our friendship in the future.
Now (yes at 5 in the morning) I am lying, but my heart is sad and thoughts: what if it was necessary to agree to his proposals? That if I am wrong and the modern world is already different and dictates its own rules? Maybe no longer needed knights or gentlemen? Maybe really she herself would not have?
It is difficult in our time to be honest, cheerful, kind and not immoral. Everywhere you are not seduced, then they seek to prick, suppress to do the same as everyone else. Maybe you really need to submit to this system?

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I already thought that there were no such people left. Do not give in to provocations.
The main thing is that there is their sense of morality, others are justified by Freud’s opinion and the opinions of other popular people obeying the herd feeling. The more popularity, the more immoral actions can be brought as a norm of behavior.
PS: Now gays will come in who are not given and they will say that you are a virgin. 🙂
PSS: For someone, to kill a cat with kittens with a shovel is the norm, he he heard how the guy was fuddling told his cattle-druzyam. And many inhabitants of the blogs are friends of such freaks, fascinating his story and would say that it was normal, because it would be their friend and would give Freud on blogs as an example, like a predator, and this is an animal ..

Only fire will cleanse sinners. Tie them to the bed. Although, it’s better to move it into the forest and tie either to the table or to the pillars.Under their legs you put brushwood. Then you take two canists of gasoline or any combustible fluid. You pour them. If they begin to pray for mercy, ask to regret them, scream, do not listen to them. They say demons. Don’t go to their persuasion. Save the souls of unhappy sinners. Open the gates of the Kingdom of Heaven for them.
After you doused, take the Bible, set them on fire and first read a prayer for the remission of sins, and then about the repose of the soul. If they shout, then do not pay attention, this demons come out of them.
This is the only way you can save them

As I said, earlier in another topic, I am an old -timer on the site, I became interested only from the New Year, so I still don’t know.

Freud for many is now not authority, therefore, not really trying in his writings and biographies, people criticize him. In fact, he said only that it is necessary to give the release of accumulated energy. Here, you said that if your friend is an exhibitionist, you would be normal about this? For me everything is completely the opposite.

But the main question is, if you had https://sistersitescasino.co.uk/casinos/this-is-vegas-casino/ not recognized such details on a friend, you would not have thought about him?

It seems that the comments were divided into 2 camps: those who have sex and who does not have it. If a person has a choice, he chooses a better thing. I don’t know how for the rest, but for me a serious relationship is several steps higher than random ties.

I am afraid, in today’s world, these qualities yourself will not help you succeed. Verified – you need to be a cynical egoist

And what will we consider the merile of success? And is such a “success” for which you need to break yourself are needed? (well, you will have to break yourself in the only case, if you are not like that)

More sharply than me, but exactly my thought.
I wanted to say that no one has the right to others to impose a moral framework if this does not proceed the law and does not violate human freedom. You can be a person of high morality, preach it, again do not impose it, and in no case do not condemn.
Yes, who knows, maybe Alexander Fleming arranged wild orgies, but this does not make a shitty man out of him.
For the most part, the whole world sinks in vices and passions. There is so much immoral in the world that just horror. But the world will go crazy if all this is over open. We must hold the curtain of our vices.

Returning to history. Friend, I would thank you in your place. I do not think that he offers everyone like that, which means he considers you a truly close person.

I’m just a preoccupied schoolboy

And you never thought that the guys who do this are just amenable to female perversion? Like, “They are already a vessel of sin and we all get into hell, so lose?”
It was not an apology, this proposal can be heard from him at any time.
Well, at the beginning of your coma, it is clear that you should not listen to your opinion. Smart people do not begin to explain their point of view like that.

And here is the Church?
Yes, I try to behave more in chivalrous with girls, the girl should wish me as a person, and not as h … like a body. Believe me, she is happy to give birth to a polnight and more than once. But this will no longer be sin.
You know, this is how Rome began to die. Immorality of behavior, debauchery, then corps is more and more impudent. It came that the Roman empire in the last years of its life was protected by the Gauls, not the Romans. And you know, there are no Romans now, Italians are committed by another race.
I hope you understand what I’m trying to say.

An old Jew enters the Catholic Church. Approaches to the priest and says:
-Holy father, I sinned. Yesterday I had a cool sex in the age of 70 with a pretty young girl and with her sexy mother.
– I forgive you, my son, but why did you come to me? You are a Jew. Sinagoga down the street.
-And here is the synagogue? I walk and boast.

Fraid built his psychology on the basis of the old maids of which he advised. Bolstoy sexually not satisfied with husbands, who were left without husbands at all. I would not trust Fraj too much.

Each has its own border of things that are permissible for conscience, someone below, someone higher, someone has even other (close) people under this border. I was raised on films about musketeers, so things such as honor and dignity are decisive for me. I met many people in its path before the company formed in which I feel completely comfortable. If this person is really a friend, then he will understand and accept your foundations. Otherwise, many now just call friendly relations friendship.